Submitted by Lehigh Valley Health Network colleague Bonnie Winch, administrative assistant, case management
My son was diagnosed with a brain tumor at age 8. He had it removed. Then they found another one at age 13, which they could not remove. He went through 15 months of chemotherapy. He is now 24 years old. I thank God every day for this.
My son has had a rough life. He also lost two of his best friends in car accidents within two years of each other. One while in high school; the other while in college. In his junior year, he became very, very ill with ulcerative colitis. He went from 200 pounds to 125 pounds within months. Everything they tried did not work. He made the decision to remove his colon about two years ago. He is doing well. Each day is a blessing.
I have learned out of all this that your life can change in a matter of seconds. Be thankful for what you have now because it can be taken from you in an instant. Unfortunately, my son has matured beyond his years through all of this. He’s never had much of a childhood. He never complained once throughout this. It hurts to see your child suffer and there is nothing you can do, but you get through it. God only gives you as much as you can handle. At times it seems like you can’t take anymore, but you do. I will tell you one thing, when you go through this, you learn not to sweat the small stuff. It humbles you and you learn to appreciate more.